How does a guy get from pursuing and wanting to be with the girl to just wanting to be friends?

Okay, so I met this guy during my toughest times - a recent break up. He was there for me the whole time and he also wanted to have a relationship that I was not ready for. Still he was there and supportive. We got closer and had intercourse and still our relationship was unclear. A week later he started becoming shady and distant. I'd get mad because I wasn't aware of what changed that he'd stop wanting to see me as often. He said he was %26quot;really%26quot; busy. Finally he confronted me saying he likes me yet he doesnt. He doesn't think we will be happy together and it's best to stay friends cuz it'll just waste both of our time to start something that will end awful. He said I am an emotional rollercoaster, I admit. However, how about a guy that turns on and off like a light switch changing his mind? I am confused because he wants to be friends but also want time between us to cool off and I feel like he just doesn't want to talk to me and find me annoying. Help?How does a guy get from pursuing and wanting to be with the girl to just wanting to be friends?I think maybe he probably felt there was no chemistry during sex or between you both..no biggie, just forget him. No sense wasting time on someone that doesn't want you.How does a guy get from pursuing and wanting to be with the girl to just wanting to be friends?You're mistake was sleeping with him when you were still healing from a break up and unclear in your relationship with him. You were very fragile and he knew it. HE IS AN OPPORTUNIST!! It sounds like he took advantage of your situation. He got what he wanted, now he's moved on. I had to learn this lesson too. Make them prove that they want you--don't just trust their words. Cut him loose, and tell him that there's not even a chance that you can be friends. Don't let him get away with that. Let him know that he was wrong and that you are aware that he took advantage of you. Men are such dogs...with their one-track minds...How does a guy get from pursuing and wanting to be with the girl to just wanting to be friends?First you need time with your self b 4 u got n 2 another relationship u jump the gun. Now think did he just hung around u 2 have Intercourse with u . He new u were weak %26amp; still hurting from your brake up . I'am a guy so i know ..remember i know how we think %26amp; what we will do just 2 get some...{ sorry 2 say it like that } but it's true. %26amp; if u were not clear about your relationship with him then it's your fault that the number 1 thing u should have gotting clear so now your hurt again %26amp; he has move on. The only thing u can do now is no matter what he says don't have sex with him anymore . U can still b his friend if u like but don't spin a lot of time with him do your own thing. %26amp; what ever your doing or doing it with . Don't give him alot of info . If he ask u what have u been up 2 lately just say nothing ,If he ask u were your going or were have u been just say around or i got something 2 do i'll get back 2 u later %26amp; just keep going. Don't hang around him that much only 4 about 15min them say ...Oh man i need 2 go i should have been were i needed 2 b by now them get up %26amp; go . I don't care were u go just Go. This is what u need 2 remember . U must keep a man thinking if he know what your doing or were your going all the time them 4 him the game is over .Try 2 enjoy the rest of your day %26amp; i wish u much luck.....dragon.....How does a guy get from pursuing and wanting to be with the girl to just wanting to be friends?It looks like he took advantage of you when you were vulnerable. Of course your an emotional roller coaster! He knows you just broke up with your boyfriend! He is trying to sweet talk you cause he knows you feel better when he does. Then when hes got you where he wants you, he does what he needs to and then makes a million excuses to get away.

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